Free to Become
For the Lord is the Spirit, and wherever the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom. So all of us who have had that veil removed can see and reflect the glory of the Lord. And the Lord — who is the Spirit — makes us more and more like him as we are changed into his glorious image (2 Corinthians 3:17-18 NLT).
Thoughts about freedom are in the air even more than usual this time of year. More than just the celebration of Independence Day in the U.S. (July 4), demonstrations for freedom are occurring all over the world. I can’t help but believe that the passion for freedom is part of God creating us in his image (Genesis 1:26-27). Something deep within us longs to be free to create and decide. Unlike God, however, we have a deep yearning to become. God is, was, and always will be (Revelation 1:4, 8; 4:8). His fundamental nature is immutable — God is faithful: his unchangeable nature of gracious compassion and righteous character ensure his love for his people (Malachi 3:6; Hebrews 13:8). We, however, are fallible and flawed. We then attempt to move past our failures and live past their consequences. We don’t want to live in the past with our failures, so we hope to become someone better, someone, new. Unfortunately, those we’ve disappointed or hurt, those who are our enemies, and our internal sense of shame and regret anchor us to our failed self. We long for the freedom to become who we long to be and were made to be. But where can we find this freedom to become? The apostle Paul reminds us that the Holy Spirit gives us the freedom to become — to become our better selves and to become our version of Jesus incarnated through us. Rules can’t do this — not even God’s rules. (This truth is Paul’s point in 2 Corinthians 3.) Only God’s Holy Spirit has this power.
The glorious good news, the freedom we find in grace, is that the Holy Spirit was given to us as a gift when we came to Christ (Acts 2:38-39). This Spirit lives in us to help us in all sorts of helpful ways in our lives as Jesus’ followers (Romans 8:1-39). This Spirit brings power to us to help us become all God wants us to be (Ephesians 3:14-21).
Paul reminds us as he wrote the Corinthians that where the Spirit of the Lord is, we have freedom. We have the freedom to become — to become our best selves, to become more like Jesus, and to be transformed to be who God created us to be, and re-created to be in Christ.And how is this supposed to happen? We are called to focus upon and to contemplate Jesus so that little by little, we begin to reflect his nature, his glory, as the Spirit transforms us to become like Jesus. This transformation happens gradually. In Christ, through the Holy Spirit, we have the freedom to become! And that, dear friend, is the greatest freedom of all.
Love the Family
“Love the Family” — Heartlight®
Love the family of believers (1 Peter 2:17).
Imagine a family where being together isn’t prioritized. Where other responsibilities — or maybe just a preference to spend time doing other things — crowd out family time. Imagine a family that trains its younger generation to put other things first as well. Imagine a family where cliques and factions become more important than the family as a whole, where the family name is brought into disrepute by all the squabbles, infighting, and division. Imagine a family that thinks its differences are more important than its shared bloodline, history and values as a family. Imagine a family that thinks success for one part means failure for another. Imagine a family that thinks every member must hold all the same opinions and convictions and do everything in the same way to remain a part of the family. Imagine a family in which the vulnerable are preyed upon while the predators are protected. Imagine a family that crushes members who are in pain under the weight of expectation, guilt, and judgment. Now imagine that same family celebrating the success of its most manipulative, deceitful, and abusive members. Imagine a family where there is no expectation that members will be a part of family life. Imagine a family in which family members only share in the life of the family when they’re nagged, cajoled, and guilted into it. Imagine a family where a few people do everything. The other members of the family stop by now and then and enjoy the benefits of the others’ work. Imagine a family where the people who do most of the work simmer in resentment of the others do little work, instead of encouraging and helping others to take responsibility as well. Imagine a family in which every person expects that everything in the family’s life together will be done to his or her liking. Imagine a family in which everyone considers him or herself an expert on every topic. Imagine a family where problems and disagreements are addressed, not by communication, but by avoidance. Imagine a family where members choose not to be part of the family anymore rather than deal with those with whom they don’t see eye-to-eye. Imagine a family that’s segregated by race, ethnicity, and language. Imagine a family in which those with money or education look down on those without and vice versa. Imagine a family in which differences provide lines for division instead of opportunities for learning, understanding, and growth. Imagine a family in which there’s no concern for the younger generation, the future of the family. Imagine that the children aren’t taught the family’s values or instructed in treasuring what the family calls essential. Imagine, if you can, a family that routinely stifles the passion and potential of young adulthood, that continually requires the up-and-comers to earn their place at the table through years of silent service to the agendas and whims of their elders. Imagine a family where there’s no respect for ancestors. Imagine a family where the younger generation demands that their voices be heard by denigrating and devaluing the experiences and earned wisdom of the older. Imagine a family in which those who are older are consigned to the trash heap because they aren’t as hip, exciting, or energetic as they used to be. Imagine that they’re mocked because they refuse to embrace the latest and greatest. Imagine a family in which the younger generation demeans the hard work and sacrifice of those who have come before — the hard work and sacrifice that has built the family as they know it. A family like the one I’m describing wouldn’t remain viable very long. It wouldn’t effectively provide safety and security for its members. Its younger members wouldn’t learn the lessons they needed to thrive. Growing bitter, angry, and suspicious as they got older would be expected. Dysfunction, like I’m describing, would reproduce itself from generation to generation until it erased anything healthy, constructive, or life-giving. A family like the one I’m describing
wouldn’t remain viable very long. When Peter tells us to “love the family of believers,” he doesn’t mean that the church ought to talk a lot about being a family. He doesn’t mean that we should call each other “brother” and “sister” at church and then go about the rest of our weeks as if our sisters and brothers don’t exist. Those words come shortly after he demands that we “live such good lives among the pagans that…they may see [our] good deeds and glorify God on the day he visits us.” How we treat each other in the church is part of the kind of life that should build a bridge between this world and the world God is creating for us to enjoy with him forever. How we live together in the church, in short, ought to be a teaser for what life together will look like then, when Christ returns and abolishes everything that causes families to implode and collapse. Too often, perhaps, it’s just the opposite. Too often, the way the church has treated one another has done nothing to give “the pagans” hope for a different kind of world, a different type of life, a different sort of family. At times, we’ve even topped the pagans in family dysfunction. The good news is, your church can be different. The failings of the historical church don’t have to be the failings of each local expression of the church. Your church can love one another. You can live together as the family that you ought to be. You can take care of each other. You can respect each other. You can disagree without diminishing each other. You can solve the problems that come up in every family by working together and affirming what holds you together. You can see diversity in age, gender, race, ethnicity, education, and economics as a good thing that will better help you understand one another and the world in which we live. You can create together a place of safety, joy, and peace. You can be a family in which every member does the work God has called them to do in the world, encouraged and equipped by every other member. Your church can be that kind of family, and it can begin with you being that kind of family member. You don’t need your leaders’ permission to love the family of believers. You can start right now. Imagine what kind of family you can create.
About the Author
Patrick Odum lives in Chicago, Illinois, with his wife, Laura and son, Joshua. He is one of the ministers at Northwest Church of Christ, and an avid Heartlight fan. He enjoys writing and maintains a website of his work called Faith Web where you can find all of his articles.
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Friends in Christ,
What a joy this past month has been! It has been such a blessing moving to Selma and New Burlington! You have made my family and I feel so welcomed! I especially want to thank you for the thoughtful cards and words of encouragement. And thank you for the many gifts and special ways you have reached out to me and my family! I also want you to know that Micah and Eli are adjusting “very well” as they have just made their selves at home in both churches! We so much look forward to being in ministry with you for many years ahead.
This past week I was reading through the book of Colossians and thinking how much a blessing Selma Christ and New Burlington has been. Not just to me and my family but to our community. This past month Selma Christ reached out with the love of Jesus through their VBS program and what a joy that was! They and New Burlington also put together and “stuffed” 31 backpacks “full” of school supplies for children in our community! It was truly, “Love in action!”
And I thought of this as I read Paul’s words encouraging the Church in Colosse to continue to share their faith and love. Paul said we are “God’s chosen people” and we are to clothe ourselves in the likeness of Christ (putting on compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, patience, bearing each other up, and forgiving one another…, Colossians 3:12-17). Like ancient Israel, we are called to be a “blessing to others;” to share Christ’ love. And I’ve seen this in you in so many ways in just this first month together!
Paul also reminded the people of Colosse to let the peace of Christ and the word of Christ rule their hearts and live in them. That whatever we do, we do in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ! These are good words for us today. For they remind us that Christ is to be at the very center of our lives. That the church activities we participate in, the special programs, the ways we reach out to our community, our times of fellowship and even our personal lives are to have Christ as the goal. I believe Paul is saying that “whatever we do” or “whatever we are about” should always bring glory to God.
May we continue to “Glorify God” in all we do, say, and think. May the peace of Christ rule our hearts, and his word dwell deep within us. And may the Lord continue to bless our church and each of our families.
Blessings in Christ,
Pastor Andy